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Love Languages Test: your five scores
20 questions for all five of your scores, not a single label
Gary Chapman described five love languages in 1992: words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time and physical touch. These 20 questions start from everyday situations, in a couple as much as in friendship or family. At the end you get all five scores and the one that leads in you, because almost nobody has only one. This is a conversation framework rather than a validated instrument, and we would rather say that before you start.
Based on the work of Gary Chapman (1992)
Independent test offered by Profilia. This is not the official questionnaire by Gary Chapman. The 5 Love Languages trademark belongs to the Moody Bible Institute of Chicago, with no connection or affiliation to Profilia.
Content updated in September 2026
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Method and numbers
- Questions
- 20 questions
- Actual median time
- 7 min 24 s
- Access
- Free, no account, no email
Observed profile distribution
Based on 191 recorded completions.
- Quality Time
- 42.4%
- Acts of Service
- 21.5%
- Physical Touch
- 17.8%
- Words of Affirmation
- 12.6%
- Receiving Gifts
- 5.8%
These numbers are measured on real completions, not claimed. The time shown is the observed median, not an estimate.
How this result is calculated
- Each of the 20 questions offers 4 answers. Each answer counts for 3 profiles at once, from 1 to 3 points each, and points add up across the whole test.
- Every profile can reach at most 48 points.
- Your main profile is the one with the most points.
- The result bars compare each profile with your highest score.
- When profiles tie for first place, the tie is shown on the result. Only one of the tied profiles, picked in a fixed order, becomes the main result: it provides the title, the detailed description and the share link.
The numbers in this rule are not written by hand: they are taken from the test's scoring key and automatically checked against the calculation the test actually runs.
Your result as a downloadable PDF, no account needed.
What this test measures, and its limits
This test measures the gestures of affection you say you most enjoy receiving. It measures neither the quality of your relationship, nor your compatibility with someone, nor what your partner needs. There is no reference group: your result is whichever one stands out most in your own answers, not a comparison with other couples. It's a way to open the conversation as a couple, not relationship advice.
About this test
The concept of the 5 Love Languages was born in 1992 when Gary Chapman, an American couples therapist, published "The 5 Love Languages". After years of working with struggling couples, Chapman noticed a recurring paradox: partners who genuinely loved each other but felt misunderstood or neglected. His conclusion was simple but transformative: we do not all express or receive love in the same way. He identified five core emotional languages: Words of Affirmation (encouragement, compliments), Acts of Service (concrete help, taking on tasks), Receiving Gifts (symbolic gestures and thoughtfulness), Quality Time (full, undistracted presence), and Physical Touch (tenderness, contact, closeness).
According to Chapman, each person has a dominant language through which they feel most loved, and a secondary one; studies have not confirmed this idea. The problem, again according to Chapman, is that people tend to express love in their own language rather than their partner's. A partner whose language is physical touch can multiply hugs while the other, whose language is quality time, still does not feel truly fulfilled. This silent mismatch is behind many relational frustrations.
Understanding your dominant language, and those of the people close to you, can help you put words to your needs, even though studies have not shown that this alone improves the quality of a relationship. This free test reveals in 20 questions how you give and receive love, so you can communicate your needs more clearly in a relationship, a friendship, or a family, and adapt how you express affection to what actually matters to those you care about.
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This test is offered for fun and personal development. Your love language may evolve depending on life stages and relationships.
Independent test offered by Profilia. This is not the official questionnaire by Gary Chapman. The 5 Love Languages trademark belongs to the Moody Bible Institute of Chicago, with no connection or affiliation to Profilia.
Words of Affirmation
"The words people say to me stay with me long after everything else fades."
Acts of Service
"Love is not what you say. It is what you show up and do."
Receiving Gifts
"A gift is love made visible: the proof that someone held you in their mind."
Quality Time
"The most valuable thing you can give me is your undivided attention."
Physical Touch
"Nothing communicates love more directly than a hand placed with intention."