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Love Languages Test: your five scores
20 questions for all five of your scores, not a single label
Gary Chapman described five love languages in 1992: words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time and physical touch. These 20 questions start from everyday situations, in a couple as much as in friendship or family. At the end you get all five scores and the one that leads in you, because almost nobody has only one. This is a conversation framework rather than a validated instrument, and we would rather say that before you start.
Based on the work of Gary Chapman (1992)
Independent test offered by Profilia. This is not the official questionnaire by Gary Chapman. The 5 Love Languages trademark belongs to the Moody Bible Institute of Chicago, with no connection or affiliation to Profilia.
Content updated in August 2026
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- 20 questions
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- 7 min 27 s
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About this test
The concept of the 5 Love Languages was born in 1992 when Gary Chapman, an American couples therapist, published "The 5 Love Languages". After years of working with struggling couples, Chapman noticed a recurring paradox: partners who genuinely loved each other but felt misunderstood or neglected. His conclusion was simple but transformative: we do not all express or receive love in the same way. He identified five core emotional languages: Words of Affirmation (encouragement, compliments), Acts of Service (concrete help, taking on tasks), Receiving Gifts (symbolic gestures and thoughtfulness), Quality Time (full, undistracted presence), and Physical Touch (tenderness, contact, closeness).
Each person has a dominant language through which they feel most loved, and a secondary one. The problem, according to Chapman, is that people tend to express love in their own language rather than their partner's. A partner whose language is physical touch can multiply hugs while the other, whose language is quality time, still does not feel truly fulfilled. This silent mismatch is behind many relational frustrations.
Understanding your dominant language, and those of the people close to you, concretely changes the quality of your relationships. This free test reveals in 20 questions how you give and receive love, so you can communicate your needs more clearly in a relationship, a friendship, or a family, and adapt how you express affection to what actually matters to those you care about.
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This test is offered for fun and personal development. Your love language may evolve depending on life stages and relationships.
Independent test offered by Profilia. This is not the official questionnaire by Gary Chapman. The 5 Love Languages trademark belongs to the Moody Bible Institute of Chicago, with no connection or affiliation to Profilia.
Words of Affirmation
"The words people say to me stay with me long after everything else fades."
Acts of Service
"Love is not what you say. It is what you show up and do."
Receiving Gifts
"A gift is love made visible : the proof that someone held you in their mind."
Quality Time
"The most valuable thing you can give me is your undivided attention."
Physical Touch
"Nothing communicates love more directly than a hand placed with intention."
Frequently Asked Questions
- Three, on top of the Impett study (Toronto, 2024). We have not measured the test-retest reliability of this test, so your dominant language can change from one sitting to the next. People tend to pick whatever feels more flattering, which underrepresents languages that seem demanding toward a partner. And a fairly general description feels accurate to almost anyone (the Barnum effect): the fact that the result resonates does not prove it is accurate. This test is meant to start a conversation with your partner, not to tell you what you need in their place.
- This free test is a practical tool for improving communication in a relationship, a friendship, or a family. It helps explain why certain expressions of affection touch you deeply while others go unnoticed, lets you name your emotional needs without guilt, and helps you adapt how you show love to what your loved ones actually need rather than to your own defaults.
- The test includes 20 questions about concrete relational situations. Allow about 5 minutes. You get immediate results, free and without sign-up: your dominant language, a detailed score for each of the five languages, and an in-depth description of your emotional profile with practical suggestions for your relationships.